'Unwind Tilters' present one solution for your thousands of tragedy . We are going to think about How can we live always happy ?
Let's we start ....
I heard these lines in One Tree Hill and perhaps these few lines would answer your question...
I feel like people get lost when they think happiness as a destination.We always think that someday we will be happy,when we get that car or that job or that one person in our life who'll fix everything.But happiness is a mood .And its a condition NOT A DESTINATION.
It is just like being tired or being hungry...
Its not Permanent..
It comes and goes and thats okay..
And if people would think that way...
They would find happiness more often:)
Let's we start ....
I heard these lines in One Tree Hill and perhaps these few lines would answer your question...
I feel like people get lost when they think happiness as a destination.We always think that someday we will be happy,when we get that car or that job or that one person in our life who'll fix everything.But happiness is a mood .And its a condition NOT A DESTINATION.
It is just like being tired or being hungry...
Its not Permanent..
It comes and goes and thats okay..
And if people would think that way...
They would find happiness more often:)
happy man can do every thing .happ life is very necessery for success . by following few steps we can be happy in evry sitution . the first this is that .
Have Close Relationships : the people they have close relation they share very problem . by sharing the probem decress and solution find out .there is no such problem to human that have no solution . most unhappy and sadness created due to not understang the sitituion .
palan fun ,and gathor your old friends and discuss about old life that pas togather . do that things that make you happy .
in short the life is so short be happy and practical
We as humans, are bound to have such experiences. The only person who has the capability of deciding the quality of life we live is - the person him(her)self. Each situation has an adverse as well as an opportunity side. In the single short life we have, it'd be a bliss to develop an attitude of focusing exclusively on the positive side of any situation. For instance, I can perfectly guess that you are a very positive person from the way you framed the question "How we live happy in any situation?" Yes! thats it. Seeing it as a situation which needs to be tackled rather than a problem which is going to decide our mood is the key!
It is difficult for us to be happy and content with everything around us. But when things don't work out the way you wanted it to, just think of it as something that has happened for some reason. Maybe to teach you a lesson, maybe to get you off a wrong path. But ultimately good things do come out of it.
Happiness is just a state of mind. The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you it will start to feel like one.
Time spent appreciating is time worth living.
Happiness is just a state of mind. The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you it will start to feel like one.
Time spent appreciating is time worth living.
- Learn to love without condition.
- Talk without bad intention.
- Give without any reason.
- And most of all, care for people without any expectation.
How to live always happy ?
Let us imagine that you are living in a place like Delhi which has extreme weather. The temperatures shoot up to 48 degree centigrade in summers and touch the low of 2-4 degrees in winters. Your body feels most comfortable when the temperature is around 20-28 degrees.
Is it possible to be comfortable in the extreme situations?
The answer to this question is both yes and no.
If you have no possession like house, AC, heater or quilt, there is no way you can feel happy in these extreme temperatures irrespective of your willpower and your desire to live in present.
On the contrary, if you have a good house fitted with Air-conditioner with 24x7 powers and enough money to pay for the electricity bill, food etc., you can live comfortably irrespective of the weather of your city.
You can insulate yourself from the external situation and enjoy happiness if you can apply the same principles in your life.
Let me suggest you how you can do so.
1: Earn Happiness
You can’t effort to live in a comfortable house with air conditioners unless you have earned enough money to pay for it. In the same way, you have to first earn your happiness before you can insulate yourself from unhappiness. This is possible if you study heard, get a good job, earn good salary and income, and save as much as possible for future. You earn your joy by suffering. Remember the famous saying, NO PAIN NO GAIN.
You can’t effort to live in a comfortable house with air conditioners unless you have earned enough money to pay for it. In the same way, you have to first earn your happiness before you can insulate yourself from unhappiness. This is possible if you study heard, get a good job, earn good salary and income, and save as much as possible for future. You earn your joy by suffering. Remember the famous saying, NO PAIN NO GAIN.
2: Insulate Yourself
It is impossible for any person to make the whole city air-conditioned and provide comfort to everyone. We are often drawn towards the problem of others and bring those problems in our own life. You have to be selfish enough to insulate yourself from the people who may still be suffering from unhappiness and pain of external circumstances. Let each person take care of himself and you take care of yourself.
It is impossible for any person to make the whole city air-conditioned and provide comfort to everyone. We are often drawn towards the problem of others and bring those problems in our own life. You have to be selfish enough to insulate yourself from the people who may still be suffering from unhappiness and pain of external circumstances. Let each person take care of himself and you take care of yourself.
3: Create Your Own World
If you totally isolate yourself from the world, you suffer from isolation. Man is a social creature and he needs company of other people. Hence you must create a small world of your own who too are seeking happiness like you. They can be your close friends, family members or relative. Spend as much time with them as possible avoiding contact with the other people. Avoid those who are unhappy because unhappiness is infectious. It spreads like virus and infects everyone who comes in connect with it. Avoid watching the daily news on TV which only shows the depressing picture of the world. Read good books and enjoy good company.
If you totally isolate yourself from the world, you suffer from isolation. Man is a social creature and he needs company of other people. Hence you must create a small world of your own who too are seeking happiness like you. They can be your close friends, family members or relative. Spend as much time with them as possible avoiding contact with the other people. Avoid those who are unhappy because unhappiness is infectious. It spreads like virus and infects everyone who comes in connect with it. Avoid watching the daily news on TV which only shows the depressing picture of the world. Read good books and enjoy good company.
4: Make Realistic Goals
One of the major problems of unhappiness in the modern world is that we often set very unrealistic goals for ourselves and for the other people. When we fail, we feel the pain. It is better to set realistic goals which are easily achievable so that you can enjoy your accomplishments more often and rarely fail in life. Let the world treat you an underachiever from their own standards. You know that happiness is more important than anything else.
One of the major problems of unhappiness in the modern world is that we often set very unrealistic goals for ourselves and for the other people. When we fail, we feel the pain. It is better to set realistic goals which are easily achievable so that you can enjoy your accomplishments more often and rarely fail in life. Let the world treat you an underachiever from their own standards. You know that happiness is more important than anything else.
5: Avoid Competition
When you compete with other people, there is no way to avoid suffering. If you lose, you suffer the pain of defeat. Even when you win, you still suffer because you are responsible for the defeat of your competitor and you end making an enemy or a critic. It is possible to live a life where the competition is minimum. There is no competition if you wish to serve others or help others. If you get your happiness by singing, listening music, reading books, talking to your friends, spending time with friends and family, you have no competition there. If your joy comes by getting more salary than others, living is bigger house, owning a bigger car, getting more power; you have to fight for it with others who are aiming for the same and it would be impossible to have a moment of happiness in your life.
Source - Quara
#Unwindtilters
When you compete with other people, there is no way to avoid suffering. If you lose, you suffer the pain of defeat. Even when you win, you still suffer because you are responsible for the defeat of your competitor and you end making an enemy or a critic. It is possible to live a life where the competition is minimum. There is no competition if you wish to serve others or help others. If you get your happiness by singing, listening music, reading books, talking to your friends, spending time with friends and family, you have no competition there. If your joy comes by getting more salary than others, living is bigger house, owning a bigger car, getting more power; you have to fight for it with others who are aiming for the same and it would be impossible to have a moment of happiness in your life.
Source - Quara
#Unwindtilters
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